Category: Dating and Relationships
Hey just wondering, how do yall find out if someone really likes ya or not? Or if there's any way possible that the two of you could be together? It's really hard for me to go right up and say so, then again I've heard it's stupid, for lack of a better word, to beat around the bush with people. I'm afraid that asking him straight up will scare him away, so was wondering your thoughts on that.
if he'sattracted to he will appreciate being asked how he feels....I understand the fear and unease that simple question can cause but listen pal, if he feels the same,he will be nervous, tongue tied and just as scared of asking as you are,so put the poor guy out of his misery and ask him .smile....if you leave it too late he may mistake your confusion for disinterest...good luck
thanks
You know, I'm not sure if there is really a strict criterion to apply to find out whether someone like you or not. Personally I find it's just one of those things that you can read in someone's behavior. You feel it or you don't. So, really, all I can say is just pay attention to how he reacts to you. That will tell you.
If you don't like the direct approach, you can try dropping little hints, teasing, and flurting, but those are no guarantee they'll be understood as a true desire to have a relationship.
Well, if the guy likes you he'll tell you. But there are some who'll lead you on to believe that they like you in t he beginning then say something completely different later on. Give a guy a few months, and if you keep constant track of his behaviors like: Is he dating his ex girlfriend on and off, is he treating you right, does he put time in for you and other questions you need to ask yourself. You'll easily tell if he's misleading you or trying to avoid you.
best of luck to you.
OK, I don' wanna worry a with nothin', but I went by my instincts once, and, well, whenever I thought someone liked me, they didn't, and whenever I had no clue, they did, and sometimes, I'd find out, but it'd be too late. I've always had bad luck with this crud. And if I got so close as to going out with someone, well, if it was a sighty, they'd get made funna by other boys, and they'd dump me. If it was a blindy, well there's many stories on that into which I will not go so yeah, LOL. However, this is just me; with you it could be completely different. Eh, guys just don' like me, OK? Let's put it that way.
No problem Weasel ..smile